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What Should A Page Boy Wear At A Wedding?

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When it comes to dressing a page boy for your wedding, the goal is to have him look adorable while still fitting in with the overall style of the wedding party. Ideally, your miniature male attendants will be dressed in a similar style to the adult male wedding attendants, creating a cohesive and polished look. However, young children often fidget and become uncomfortable when faced with very formal attire, so a small compromise may be necessary to ensure they’re both happy and comfortable on the big day.

Balancing Style and Comfort

While it’s tempting to dress your page boy in a miniature version of the groom’s suit, it’s important to remember that children may not always be comfortable in formal wear. To avoid any last-minute meltdowns, it’s best to discuss the outfit with the child in advance. Letting them have some say in the decision can make them feel more involved and excited about their role, reducing the likelihood of them rebelling against the attire.

If the page boy is particularly fidgety or resistant to wearing something too formal, consider a less structured suit that still complements the groom and groomsmen’s attire. This can help maintain the overall aesthetic of the wedding party while ensuring the little one remains comfortable and happy.

Matching vs. Complementing: Finding the Right Balance

Matching the page boy’s outfit with the groom’s can create a charming father-son or close relative look, which is especially meaningful if the page boy is the groom’s child. In these cases, it might be worth the extra cost to invest in a suit that matches the groom’s, creating a memorable and cohesive appearance for the big day.

However, if the page boy is a nephew, godson, or another young relative, it might make more sense to opt for a suit that complements rather than matches exactly. A more affordable suit in a similar style or colour palette can still look stylish and cohesive with the rest of the wedding party. After all, the page boy is likely only going to wear the suit once, so choosing a less expensive option can help keep your wedding budget in check while still ensuring he looks the part.

What Duties Does a Page Boy or Ring Bearer Perform?

Page boys traditionally don’t have any official duties, but they can play a special role in your wedding by helping with a few charming tasks. Here are some ideas for what your page boy can do on the big day:

  • Carry the Bride’s Train: Sticking with tradition, the page boy can help carry the bride’s train as she enters and proceeds down the aisle. This not only adds to the visual appeal of the ceremony but also gives the page boy a significant role to play.

  • Walk with the Flower Girl: The page boy can walk alongside the flower girl, either scattering petals or simply accompanying her as they make their way down the aisle.

  • Carry a Posy or Bouquet: If the page boy is comfortable, he can carry a small posy or bouquet of flowers, adding a sweet touch to his role.

  • Blow Bubbles: For a whimsical touch, have the page boy blow bubbles as he walks down the aisle. This can add a fun and lighthearted element to the ceremony.

  • Assist the Ushers: The page boy can also help the ushers by handing out orders of service to guests as they arrive.

  • Ring Bearer Duties: If the page boy is also serving as the ring bearer, he’ll need to carry the rings to the altar. You can choose to use the actual wedding rings, secured to a cushion with ribbon or thread, or opt for fake rings and entrust the real ones to the Best Man.

To ensure everything goes smoothly, consider assigning one of your responsible ushers to keep an eye on the younger attendants. This way, they’ll have someone to turn to if they need help or a little encouragement during the ceremony.

Where Does the Page Boy Sit at the Wedding?

Once the page boy has completed his duties during the ceremony, it’s best to let him sit with his parents in the church. This gives him a chance to relax and enjoy the rest of the ceremony with familiar faces nearby. The same goes for the reception—unless, of course, you’re planning to have a “junior” table for all the younger guests. This can be a fun way for the children to enjoy the festivities together while still feeling like an important part of the celebration.

Bottom Line:

At Astares, we understand the importance of finding the right balance between style and comfort for your page boy. Whether you’re looking for a suit that matches the groom’s or a more affordable option that complements the wedding party, we’re here to help. Our menswear specialist, Jez, is available to provide personalised advice and guide you through the process of choosing the perfect outfit.

We invite you to visit our store to explore our selection of high-quality suits and accessories for page boys. With our expertise and range of options, we’ll ensure your little attendant looks sharp and feels comfortable on your special day.